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Finding Neruda while Navigating Some Rap Songs

Words by Mercia Tucker

I lost my aunt in 2018. It wasn’t the open-heart surgery that killed her, but the complications of being cut open for 12 hours on the surgical table that she grappled with for months thereafter before succumbing to the effusion on her lungs. Hers was the third death of a family member that I’d had to deal with in 2018 after my uncle and grandma died within a week of each other three months prior.

That she wasn’t a blood relative mattered not; hers was the first number I dialled after my sister’s head collided with the window sill and the resultant heavy blood flow – that later required four stitches – sent me into a flustered panic, hers was the stern tone and side-eye I had to reckon with after she discovered a hickey on my neck in my rebellious teens, her home was ours and she would take her own plate of food out of the microwave to feed us if the pots were emptied. As my mother’s best friend, she knew me before I was born and raised me just the same.

To say that I was overwhelmed with grief would be an understatement. I’d never known it in this form, it had never hit me this hard. I had lost a mother.

Grief envelops. It strips you of every carefully constructed idea you hold of yourself, picking through your emotional carcass and leaving the skeleton of your existence exposed. Your past traumas are exhumed, your current fears highlighted in LED when faced with the finality of death in such a personal way. There is no way to know how deeply you will be affected by it until you’re fully immersed in it.

In the aftermath of the burial, the ho-hum of daily life continued. I had a job to return to and projects to undertake that couldn’t afford the time away from them that the grief demanded in order to be dealt with effectively. If I wanted a roof over my head and food in my cupboards, I’d have to sideline the growing emotional vacuum for productivity and only return to deal with it when I had the time to spare.

It had been a few months of emotional compartmentalisation disguised as progress: I wasn’t breaking into tears randomly and was actively seeking out any little piece of joy that I could hold onto in the form of external stimuli. Then November 30 came around and Earl Sweatshirt released Some Rap Songs on a 24 minute project, his first in three years.

He’d lost his father, Keorapetse Kgositsile, at the very beginning of the year. In documenting their complicated relationship over the years, both father and son chose the Kgositsile oral tradition as the vessel of their catharsis.

Ntate Keorapetse ended “If I Could Sing”, a collection of his poems published in 2002, with “Rejoice”.


Says Thebe Neruda of the vibrant smile

The eye so curious it is reluctant

To shut the world out even in sleep

I’m the dream keeper he says

The spontaneous song and the dance

Pulsating with the force of my people’s ethos

Watch me and rejoice

Our sister Betty Carter

Repository of our memory

Whose mouth is free of all untruth

Who plays her voice as a horn

Says you can do anything you want to do

If you know what to do

I am witness and celebrant here

I do everything I want to do

Because I know what to do

I’m the dreamkeeper I say

The mouth that tells no lie

I’m not a man

I’m a boy, beneficiary of the fruit

Harvested from my people’s memory

Watch me and rejoice

Poet leave him

Leave him alone

You have praised him

You’ve praised him without knowing his name

His name is “mouth that tells no lie”

Earl spoke on his relationship with his father in tracks like Odd Future’s “Blade” in 2010 where he says, “Shit, I’ll pass the class when my dad starts givin’ shits/ But as long as our relationship is turdless/ I’ma keep burning rubber and fucking these beats with burnt dick.” On “Chum”, off his debut studio album Doris in 2013, he says,

It’s probably been twelve years since my father left, left me fatherless

And I just used to say I hate him in dishonest jest

When honestly I miss this nigga, like when I was six

And every time I got the chance to say it I would swallow it.

Prof. Kgosistile also spoke to The New Yorker magazine in 2011 about his son’s career, saying that he had not listened to any of his son’s work, nor had he sought it out. “When he feels that he’s got something to share with me, he’ll do that,” Kgositsile said. “And until then I will not impose myself on him just because the world talks of him.”

In an interview with Vulture in November 2018, Earl talked about wanting to share new work with his father but his father died before he had a chance to. It was against that backdrop that Some Rap Songs was released.

“I did work with the intention of being able to come back literally this year, at the top of this year. I’d finally pledged, like, “I’m going home. I can do it. I can see this.” And he died. Going through that existential thing, plus other existential elements of my pops, him being a public figure, the public figure that he is. And then being Earl Sweatshirt on top of it?”

He added “At a certain point, I put my head down, and we did our shit and buried our father. I’ve just been figuring it out. But at a certain point, all of the pressures just kind of broke me.”

I was interested in listening to Earl’s first body of work released since the death of his father. I wanted to see exactly how he would channel his grief into his work and what the resultant expression would be. I was not prepared for the ways in which it would excavate me as well.

The music industry is going through a sort of collective ADHD in the music release cycle where, in the factory line of albums churned out every week, consumers are expected to consume music at a rapid pace before moving on to the next album in the production line. We don’t sit with the music anymore. Even though journalists are typically sent the album in advance, reviews are dropped on release day and by the next week the production line has kept moving. We don’t sit with the music anymore.

Some Rap Songs has been weighing on my chest as though it were Thor’s hammer itself. There’s a partial emotional paralysis it has exerted on me, not allowing me to move past it to any other work until I did the labour of self-examination. It’s a mindfuck to be surrounded by the mayhem of the festive season but unable to participate, centred in the solitude of a storm, in reflection.

I found myself in the lyrics on “Veins”, “It’s been a minute since I heard applause/ It’s been a minute since you seen or heard from me, I’ve been swerving calls.” I found myself in the sonic loops that were used on the bulk of the album’s production; going back around, back into itself, a snapshot in time paralysed by grief. He juxtaposes his technically astute delivery with gravelly and technically imperfect beats. I saw myself and the way I presented an impressive top layer, to an otherwise unaware public, with the chaos of my underbelly.

The album is 24 minutes long but requires you to go back to it again and again, unearthing another layer, before it fully grasps you. I was emotional while listening to it on many occasions; mainly because of my own circumstances, but also because of his. I was emotional while writing this article, birthing the words on this page that demanded a kind of introspection that I was unable to allow myself in months.

In the process of sitting with Some Rap Songs and finding the poetry in its rhythm, I’m reminded of Sterling Plumpp’s poem, written as a tribute for his friend’s son. “Poet: for Thebe Neruda” says …


were born with blues.

With an ANC imprint

on them. How you gon

do anything but rule?

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